Negative Reactions on Procreation against a Healthy Marriage

   Negative Reactions on Procreation against a Healthy Marriage

After a long waiting and there is no pregnancy coming up, some partners without faith can resort to secretly raise children outside their marriage without the knowledge of the other partner. This is not the practice in a healthy marriage. In a Healthy Marriage, the partners are open to themselves without prejudice.

The commonest reaction outside Healthy Marriage is that if both partners are not medically fit and the man feels that he is down, he can arrange and pay another man to perform his duty to his wife if the partners agree. This is another issue not practiced in a Healthy Marriage.

 If the woman is found guilty by medical examination with her sincere mind she can in agreement with the male partner, encourage her husband to look outside and get another viable woman to raise babies for the marriage. This is not also practiced in a Healthy Marriage, because a Healthy Marriage pursues to keep posterity of the fruits of their own body and not adulterations.

The awkward practice as recorded above is a loophole to encourage polygamy, which is not acceptable in a Healthy Marriage.

 The Partners may decide to adopt children from the Motherless babies homes with all processes and documentations settled. The worry about this is that the origin and gene status of the adopted children are often not known. Partners in this situation should pray hard before adopting children, yet this is not expected of a Healthy Marriage.

To evade the problem of Childlessness,

(a) Young people should avoid abusing themselves sexually when they are younger, because they will need their reproductive system when they get married.

(b) Sexual abuse leads to acquisition of diseases capable of destroying the reproductive system, making the abusers infertile.

(c) Young and marriageable people should stop abusing drugs especially anti-pregnancy drugs.

 (d) Young people should strive no matter the temptation not to allow their future to be ruined by cultism and associated practices. Cultic activities leads to all types of regrettable evils namely, smoking, sniffing, snuffing, drinking alcohols, indiscriminate sexual activities and fetish ritual practices capable of destroying the reproductive  future of young people.

 It is important to note that good things of life are still stored in the future. People of all ages should not allow the activities of now to prevent their joys of tomorrow.